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Merry Christmas!

I am so grateful for the gift of Jesus. He loves us so much that he doesn't come in with power and glory, but as a tiny, frail baby. He doesn't appear in a glorious fiery entrance, but instead by birth in a humble, cold, dark stable. It's because of his humility that we are able to approach him. How amazing and fantastic that he comes to show us God.


After the new year starts, I will continue the series on interpersonal boundaries. I hope each of you has a wonderful holiday season. It is my prayer that in 2010 the wonder of Jesus' love fills you in new and surprising ways.


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