Skip to main content

Mental Health Interview Specialists Series: Kimberly Gleason, Life Coach

Let me introduce Kimberly Gleason who is a professional life and executive coach, speaker, author, and owner of the coaching company, Coaching for Life Purpose (soon to be renamed Synergy Coaching Alliance). She graduated with a B.A. in English and a minor in psychology. Thereafter she went through professional coach training through the Institute for Life Coach Training, an International Coach Federation-accredited school. She has been featured in Women’s Lifestyle Magazine as an expert in this field and was recently interviewed for Grand Rapids Magazine.


Kerry: What is life coaching?

Kimberly:
Life coaching is a powerful, synergistic partnership between coach and client that propels the client toward overcoming challenges and achieving his or her goals and dreams, both personally and professionally. Similar to a personal trainer, a coach will encourage, brainstorm, strategize, and motivate clients towards their goals, as well as hold them accountable for achieving them. Basically, a coach helps clients get from where they are in life and career to where they want to be.

Kerry: How does it differ from more traditional forms of counseling?

Kimberly:
Traditionally, counselors are considered the “experts.” Also, counseling often focuses on the past and deals with traumatic issues (such as divorce, death, and other types of disorders). Coaches, on the other hand, help people who are already mentally healthy but simply want more out of life. Coaching is not past-oriented but future and action oriented. They do not consider themselves to be the experts regarding the clients’ lives, but rather partners who align themselves with the clients’ goals. Coaches do not give advice. Instead, they help clients to develop their own goals and strategies based on their values, priorities, experiences, and lifestyle.

Kerry: When should someone seek help from a life coach?

Kimberly:Someone should seek help from a life coach when they feel stuck and unfocused or when they simply want more out of their lives and careers. Coaches are for people who are motivated and driven to be their best selves in all areas of their lives. Because coaches help people to overcome their struggles and reach their goals, coaches generally help people in various aspects of their life and career.

Kerry: What should one expect from coaching?

Kimberly:
One should expect to work with a coach 2-4 times a month for one-hour sessions. Clients always walk away from each session with specific things to do that will help them move forward to where they want to be. Only those who are ready to invest in themselves—their finances, time, energy, and passion—are ready to have a coach. Also, clients can expect that a coach will be someone who believes in them and their capabilities and is entirely committed to their growth and success.

Kerry: Are there typical problems or issues that are addressed?

Kimberly:
Some examples include having better time management, becoming more organized, making a major decision, determining a career choice, keeping focus, strengthening relationships, aligning one's life with one's priorities, accomplishing a particular goal or dream, being more successful, being more productive and efficient, finding one's life purpose, making an impact on the world, decreasing work stress, having more joy, and personal and spiritual growth.

Kerry: How long does the coaching relationship last?

Kimberly:
On average, 4-8 months.

Kerry: What are the most important credentials or personal qualities in an effective life coach?

Kimberly:
When looking for a life coach, make sure that the coach has had professional training through an International Coach Federation-accredited training school.

Kerry: How does one find an effective life coach in their area?

Kimberly:
You can find a coach through the Professional Coaches Association of Michigan.

Thank you, Kimberly, for taking time for this interview!You can find out more about coaching or subscribe to Kimberly Gleason’s free e-newsletter at http://www.coachingforlifepurpose.com/.

Comments

Popular posts from this blog

Narcissism: Understanding the Effects of Narcissistic Parenting

Since Freud, researchers have studied various environmental effects on maturing personalities, and it has been well documented that parenting styles are profoundly involved in the shaping of children’s developing psyches. It is hard enough working with a narcissistic boss or living with a narcissistic spouse, but being raised by narcissistic parents has several serious emotional consequences. What are some of these effects? Dr. Paul Meier in his book, You Might Be a Narcissist If . . . How to Identify Narcissism in Ourselves and Others and what We Can Do About It , identifies four consequences of narcissistic parenting. They are: 1) the  development of a false self; 2) the desire to behave with perfectionism; 3) chronic habits of passivity; and 4) increased vulnerability to addictive behaviors. The Development of a False Self Since narcissistic parents unconsciously need others to help soothe their fragile sense of self, they naturally turn to any available relationsh...

Antisocial Personality Disorder Resource List

This is the final article in the series looking at Antisocial Personality Disorder. I plan to start a new series discussing various aspects of Depression in January 2013. Hope everyone has a wonderful, happy holiday season! Resource List Snakes in Suits: When Psychopaths go to Work by Paul Babiak, PhD & Robert D. Hare, PhD (2006) HarperCollins Publishers Not all individuals with Antisocial Personality Disorder (APD) are in prison, many are among us. They work and play alongside us. Babiak and Hare reveal the common ploys of psychopaths, especially in the corporate world. The authors provide detailed suggestions about how to screen for psychopaths in the interview process as well as how to protect the work environment from those whose main goals are to manipulate and exploit the workplace. This is an outstanding book for those in the business world who would like to become more aware of the subtle warning signs of psychopaths.   The Sociopa...

Borderline Personality Disorder: Characteristics and Development of BPD

I recently came across a YouTube clip from the fourth season of Bravo’s The Real Housewives of New Jersey . In this episode Teresa Guidice exploded in a fit of rage and flipped over a restaurant table. I don’t watch the show or know if any of these women have a psychological condition, but I was struck by Teresa’s display of impulsivity and disruptive behavior. The scene takes place at a very nice restaurant. Teresa is arguing with a friend. When the friend becomes insulting, Teresa responds with rage. She begins a tirade while pounding the table with her fist and finally flips the table over. Several men rush to her side. She shoves one away, but allows another to comfort her. She then calms down and they end their conversation with a kiss.  In a post interview Teresa seems unaware of the intensity of her emotional outburst. She doesn’t realize she shoved her male friend. She is also out of touch with her table guests’ reactions of shock and confusion...